Question for Betty.
 
My girlfriend has been asking questions about what I would do if we broke up.  I keep telling her that as much as it would hurt me, I care and love her enough that I would let her go.  I've known her throughout high school, and we've been together for a year now, but, I don't wanna lose her.  She means the world to me, and even though I'm not perfect, I adore her.
So, what I wanna ask is:
 1. Since she's asking what I would do if we broke up, does that mean she wants to break up? 
 2.  Does it mean I'm clingy if I don't wanna let her go?
 
Betty's Answer.
 
Thanks for the wonderful questions.  It sounds like you and your girlfriend communicate openly and honestly with each other.  You are right that relationships and our ability to connect with others gives us enjoyment to our lives. All of your feelings are normal.
Since neither you or I can "read the mind" of another, we can't really answer what your girlfriend might be thinking.  I would encourage you to ask her. Keep communicating as healthy communication is critical to your relationship.

For further information on building a healthy relationship, you may want to check out this website.
www.cmhc.utexas.edu/healthyrelationships.html